Spring is here, and with it comes a chance to step into something fresh—whether that’s a new perspective, a new outfit, or even a weekend getaway. I’m heading to New Orleans for a little spring reset, and while I’m definitely packing a few cute outfits and my favorite lipstick, I’m also packing something more important: confidence.
As women in midlife, we’ve carried a lot—responsibilities, expectations, and let’s be honest, sometimes other people’s opinions. This trip is about choosing joy, boldness, and self-trust. Whether you’re planning your own spring adventure or just dreaming about one, here’s what I’m taking with me (and why you might want to pack these things too).
1. The Confidence to Take Up Space
I used to worry about being too loud, too much, or too different. Not anymore. On this trip, I’m reminding myself that I belong in every room I walk into—whether that’s a jazz bar, a quiet café, or just walking solo through a new city.
Confidence in midlife isn’t about being fearless—it’s about showing up anyway.
2. Curiosity Over Perfection
Instead of planning every detail, I’m leaving room for spontaneity. Curiosity leads to connection, adventure, and real growth. Whether it’s trying a new flavor of gumbo or talking to a stranger, I’m choosing experiences over perfection.
3. Bold Lipstick (and Bold Choices)
Yes, I’m bringing the red lipstick. But it’s more than makeup—it’s a reminder to make bold choices. To say yes when I want to. To say no when I need to. To wear the damn boots, wherever I go.
Packing for a weekend trip? Don’t forget the item that makes you feel most like you.
4. Sunshine, Style, and Self-Care
I’m keeping my spring travel wardrobe simple but stylish—flowy dresses, comfy shoes, and pieces that make me feel confident and comfortable. But I’m also packing my favorite skincare (hello, Eminence Organics!) and a book that nourishes my soul.
Self-care in midlife isn’t selfish. It’s necessary.
5. A Playlist That Reminds Me Who I Am
Music always helps me get into the right mindset. I’ve curated a playlist for this trip that makes me feel alive, grounded, and ready to soak up every second of this getaway. Highly recommend packing a soundtrack for your next adventure.
Whether you’re hopping on a plane this spring or staying closer to home, remember: confidence is something you can carry with you. You don’t have to wait until you feel 100% ready—just start walking in the direction of joy.
Let the good times roll, my friend. (“Laissez les bon temps rouler”)
